Sugasm – 32

This week’s Sugasm! Are you glad? I am. Because my favourite category is on top this time. Go BDSM & Fetish! ;)
Audio

Audioblog Posts 1 and 2 (alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)
First Ever Audio Post (secretsofadirtygirl.blogspot.com)

Funny / Sex News

Alas Poor Yorick, I Blew Him Well (tgp.com)
The Hooters Conspiracy (ethnorotica.com)
League of Super Friends with Benefits (shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
My Most Embarrassing Sex Moment (radicalvixen.com)

Thoughts on Sex, Sexy Reviews, Sex Advice

5 Senses (gentlygently.blogspot.com)
Anonymity (gentlebutfirm.blogspot.com)
Cultural Differences (sugarbank.com)
Masturbation and Ejaculatory Inevitability (onaniajournal.blogspot.com)
More Pixilated Nudity (4thegirlnextdoor.blogspot.com)
Natural Contours – Ultime (sin.typepad.com/shauna_by_night)
Sex Tip – From a Men’s Magazine (seskuality.com)
Sexual Balance (eroticvision.blogspot.com)
You Asked: What Do I Consider Cheating? (cuntinglinguist.blogspot.com)

BDSM and Fetish

Bondage Fantasies (darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
Contemplation of the Lower Navel (sabrinainstockings.com)
DVD: “And For You I Will Come As Well” (Lupus Pictures) (adelehaze.com)
Sexual Healing (aliferestarted.blogspot.com)

Erotic Writing

Climax (erotiterrorist.blogspot.com)

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DVD: “And For You I Will Come As Well” (Lupus Pictures)

This is a repost – with some edits, one of which is relevant and marked in italics – of my review previously published on the SPReview website.

“And For You I Will Come As Well…” from Lupus Pictures is an odd production. Your faithful reviewer has had to watch it several times in order to work out a coherent description of the film, which would reflect its kink value as well as its several oddities.

The main raison d’etre of this film is introduction of stinging nettles to the array of Lupus’ punishment implements. The use of nettles is perfectly authentic in Eastern Europe; they were/are often used as a cheap, ready instrument of immediate correction in rural areas. To further the believability of their scenario, Lupus have chosen to return to 1950 as their setting. The Lupus ethos tells us that in the 50s discipline in the family was immediate and brutal – hardly even believable to a modern viewer. They seem to wish to document this brutality as close to life as possible, often opting for unattractive – yet realistic – make-up, dialogues and CP techniques. They seem to count on the stark brutality and shock value to create weird Lupus-brand eroticism. Whether this works for you, is a question of personal preferences.

As though to distance themselves from the harshness of the story, they pile on surreal elements: the film is crawling with mythical creatures, which appear a propos nothing: there’s Death, a Water Sprite, a Devil, and some others. Their presence, it seems, is supposed to signal to the viewer that the rest of the story is meant to look just as surreal as all the super-natural elements.

The story, meanwhile, is one of peer pressure and traditional rustic values.

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Tawses are evil

Writing the sex bit

I complained to my husband that I was having trouble writing the sex scene in a story that’s supposedly about sex. He immediately came to my side, and, with the words: “Do you want some inspiration?” started to unzip his flies. “How about – suck my cock, bitch?”

“No,” I said with distate. “This is a girl/girl scene.”

“Oh well. Suck my big, fat, throbbing latex dildo?”

“Riiiiight. Why is it throbbing?”

“It’s a vibrating one.”

I think, I’ll just look for inspiration by gazing heavenwords. Heavens have never failed me yet.

P.S. Mr. Haze is the only man who knows how to use the words “suck”, “cock” and “bitch” appropriately in my presence; everybody else is advised to not even try, as long as they like having a cock at all.

Opinions are blog currency

There’s an interesting discussion brewing (or at least, I hope it’s brewing, rather than fizzling out) in the comments to my post “Dire Caning Technique”. It could sure use some more opinions – basically, because right now I’m far from sure I’m actually right, and if I’m not, I’d like to be shown so.

P.S. No sucking up to either side, though, please: just say what you think. OK?