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Sugasm – 32
This week’s Sugasm! Are you glad? I am. Because my favourite category is on top this time. Go BDSM & Fetish! ;)
Audio
Audioblog Posts 1 and 2 (alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)
First Ever Audio Post (secretsofadirtygirl.blogspot.com)
Funny / Sex News
Alas Poor Yorick, I Blew Him Well (tgp.com)
The Hooters Conspiracy (ethnorotica.com)
League of Super Friends with Benefits (shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
My Most Embarrassing Sex Moment (radicalvixen.com)
Thoughts on Sex, Sexy Reviews, Sex Advice
5 Senses (gentlygently.blogspot.com)
Anonymity (gentlebutfirm.blogspot.com)
Cultural Differences (sugarbank.com)
Masturbation and Ejaculatory Inevitability (onaniajournal.blogspot.com)
More Pixilated Nudity (4thegirlnextdoor.blogspot.com)
Natural Contours – Ultime (sin.typepad.com/shauna_by_night)
Sex Tip – From a Men’s Magazine (seskuality.com)
Sexual Balance (eroticvision.blogspot.com)
You Asked: What Do I Consider Cheating? (cuntinglinguist.blogspot.com)
BDSM and Fetish
Bondage Fantasies (darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
Contemplation of the Lower Navel (sabrinainstockings.com)
DVD: “And For You I Will Come As Well” (Lupus Pictures) (adelehaze.com)
Sexual Healing (aliferestarted.blogspot.com)
Erotic Writing
Climax (erotiterrorist.blogspot.com)
DVD: “And For You I Will Come As Well” (Lupus Pictures)
This is a repost – with some edits, one of which is relevant and marked in italics – of my review previously published on the SPReview website.
“And For You I Will Come As Well…” from Lupus Pictures is an odd production. Your faithful reviewer has had to watch it several times in order to work out a coherent description of the film, which would reflect its kink value as well as its several oddities.
The main raison d’etre of this film is introduction of stinging nettles to the array of Lupus’ punishment implements. The use of nettles is perfectly authentic in Eastern Europe; they were/are often used as a cheap, ready instrument of immediate correction in rural areas. To further the believability of their scenario, Lupus have chosen to return to 1950 as their setting. The Lupus ethos tells us that in the 50s discipline in the family was immediate and brutal – hardly even believable to a modern viewer. They seem to wish to document this brutality as close to life as possible, often opting for unattractive – yet realistic – make-up, dialogues and CP techniques. They seem to count on the stark brutality and shock value to create weird Lupus-brand eroticism. Whether this works for you, is a question of personal preferences.
As though to distance themselves from the harshness of the story, they pile on surreal elements: the film is crawling with mythical creatures, which appear a propos nothing: there’s Death, a Water Sprite, a Devil, and some others. Their presence, it seems, is supposed to signal to the viewer that the rest of the story is meant to look just as surreal as all the super-natural elements.
The story, meanwhile, is one of peer pressure and traditional rustic values.
Tawses are evil
Writing the sex bit
I complained to my husband that I was having trouble writing the sex scene in a story that’s supposedly about sex. He immediately came to my side, and, with the words: “Do you want some inspiration?” started to unzip his flies. “How about – suck my cock, bitch?”
“No,” I said with distate. “This is a girl/girl scene.”
“Oh well. Suck my big, fat, throbbing latex dildo?”
“Riiiiight. Why is it throbbing?”
“It’s a vibrating one.”
I think, I’ll just look for inspiration by gazing heavenwords. Heavens have never failed me yet.
P.S. Mr. Haze is the only man who knows how to use the words “suck”, “cock” and “bitch” appropriately in my presence; everybody else is advised to not even try, as long as they like having a cock at all.
Opinions are blog currency
There’s an interesting discussion brewing (or at least, I hope it’s brewing, rather than fizzling out) in the comments to my post “Dire Caning Technique”. It could sure use some more opinions – basically, because right now I’m far from sure I’m actually right, and if I’m not, I’d like to be shown so.
P.S. No sucking up to either side, though, please: just say what you think. OK?
Hallmarks of Intellect
A letter from Saturday’s Times:
“Sir, An intellectual is a man who visits a strip club and watches the audience.” – from Stephen O’Loughlin, Huddersfield.
Mmm. And in spanking terms, would an intellectual be the person who watches spanking vids for the symbolism, plotting and nifty camera work?
Sugasm – 31
The best of the sex blogs by the bloggers who blog them.
Erotic Writing
Back to the Beach (luvsicpup.blogspot.com)
Bliss (sexblogthis.blogspot.com)
Closings and Openings (sadiedark69.blogspot.com)
The Delight Of Sexual Tension (thetastetester.com)
The Driver (pleasinglydebauched.blogspot.com)
First Time – Steaming the Windows in the Backseat of a Car (thestoryofrose.blogspot.com)
Five Minutes (barbiebaby09.livejournal.com)
How Would It Be? (easilyaroused.co.uk)
Illicit Liason (gentlygently.blogspot.com)
Low-Carb Foreplay (realadultsex.com)
masculine/Feminine (damnjezebel.com)
Stairs (alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)
Tara’s Private Diary: Sucking Him Dry (taratainton.com)
Taxi Cab Confessions (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com)
Thoughts on Sex: Sex Advice, Sex Commentary, Sex News, Reviews, Interviews, Sexual Politics
Burning Rubber Interview (sin.typepad.com/shauna_by_night)
CockBlogging Wednesday 22 + A Guest Review (shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
The Future’s So AdBrite, I Gotta Get Paid (sugarbank.com)
Hand-Jobs: Things You Need To Know, Part One (cuntinglinguist.blogspot.com)
High-Frequency Masturbation (onaniajournal.blogspot.com)
Maenads’ Mantra (sexeteria.blogspot.com)
What the Net Dragged In – 4
did matron spank you – Indeed she did; results are coming soon to Bars and Stripes
i enjoy being severely caned – Splendid! So do I. Oh, sorry, were you looking for confessional letters?
spanking teen pussy – Elderly cats world over are trembling
spanking boobs exposed – Not sure whether you want to spank somebody’s bottom while their tits are out, or whether you actually suggest to smack the exposed tits – but either way, this is a totally wrong blog to look for bare tits.
see someone get a bear spanking – Say, what? If a hairbrush spanking is about getting spanked with a hairbrush, does a bear spanking have anything to do with getting whacked with a *bear*? You kink is OK, man, but honestly… wow.
Dire Caning Technique
I’ve had it up to here with incompetent caning. I was reading a review of a video (from a new producer, no less), and it happened to be illustrated with some stills.
Where on Earth did these people get the idea that cane strokes should be administered diagonally across a girl’s butt, so that not just a tip, but a whole foot of rattan slashes her down her right thigh, wrapping ’round? And why, when the strokes are so obviously going wrong, do they continue along the same lines for the rest of the caning? Is there some bizarre line of thinking that says: one badly aimed stroke is a mistake, 25 are a house style?
(And who told them that cane strokes should be delivered in multiples of 25? The cane isn’t a bleedin’ leather paddle; you can, in fact, get through to a girl with a dozen well-aimed strokes.)
And why is it that the people who don’t have a clue how to use a whippy implement are always making the most brutal videos? Wouldn’t it stand to reason that you should practice light, and then maybe increase the force of strokes when you know what you’re doing? Oh, no, they just want to compensate for lack of technique with sheer brutal force; the model doesn’t just end up with oddly placed marks – her whole right thigh will be torn to ribbons. And then, because the material is so severe, there’s always to be a choir of cheerleaders to hail the producer as a bright, new star on the spanking horizon. Screw technique, screw safe practice of CP: they’ve got pretty girls screaming, so they must be good.
Grrrrrr.
This must be stopped, before it becomes acceptable in the industry to hit spanking models any-bleeding-where you like.
For best practice in freakishly hard yet safe caning, see the work of Pavel Stastny of Lupus. His cane goes exactly where it’s supposed to. It might be harder CP than I really like to see, but it’s competent – in the way so much other stuff isn’t.
Traditional Easter in Prague
Our friend Niki Flynn has been up to no good in Prague this Easter. Either that, or she’s been *really* good at upholding Easter traditions.
Click here for her special gallery on the Lupus Pictures site
