Archive for November, 2006
Get up onto the roof and stick your bottom out
This is hilarious: Sam Sugar wants to make Google-assisted satellite porn:
All you need to do is get naked somewhere public while doing something pornographic. If you can stand at the tip of a 30ft paper arrow I’d appreciate it. The tricky bit’s waiting to have your photo taken. I don’t know when the satellites are overhead so it might be easiest to wait a full 12 hrs to make sure you’re visible.
Respect the Party-going Guy
It makes me mighty unhappy to hear girls bad-mouth men who come to commercial spanking parties. I’ve met some fantastic guys at the parties I’ve done (even if I get scared witless every time just before I go, but that has more to do with my extreme shyness). I often find myself wondering how this or that guy is doing, and what he had thought of my most recent video, and whether he would come to one of my parties again.
Parties are not the best place to make friends – there is too much going on, you’re either getting spanked or socialise with everybody at once, and you have to make sure no one is sitting in the corner, forgotten. I’m told, parties are a good way to make contacts for 1-2-1 sessions, but as I don’t do those, opportunities to make lasting friendships and playing again with the men I liked are pretty limited.
Be that as it may, I’ve met some wonderful guys. One man at my first party kept cracking jokes that nearly made me fall off his lap; another was so young that I felt I should be spanking him instead, though he was perfectly proficient. Then there was an older man with incredible energy and enthusiasm for spanking play; I always think of him when I feel like I couldn’t be bothered to buckle my school shoes or to watch another spanking film. Another guy was simply smokin’ hot (I like a man with a dark beard), another was sweet to the point of not wanting to hurt the girls (though honestly, it was OK).
When I hear people dismiss these men as weirdos who can’t get a spanking partner for free, I can’t help imagining the faces of the guys I’ve met. “That one’s not a weirdo, and neither is that other one, and I supposed this one is slightly odd, but he’s so sweet that it doesn’t really matter.”
Don’t get me wrong, there’s an occasional odd vibe, and sometimes there’ll be a man you can’t connect with, or can’t bring yourself to like – but all the sweet, charming men, unlucky enough not to have another outlet for their spanking fantasies, but brave enough to come to the open and attend a party, making all of them responsible for the creepiness of the world is uninformed and unfair.
I do wonder how one particular guy is doing, and whether he’ll come to one of my parties again…
Girls and Boys Spanked Together
There is a type of spanking videos that doesn’t exist (at all! OK, I haven’t seen them all, and you may point some out if I’m wrong, but I’m 90% sure I’m right).
I’m talking about a F/MF or M/MF video, that is, a scenario where a girl and a lad are punished together. They misbehave together, and the incident gets dealt with. They get spanked. Together. A plot where this happens isn’t so hard to imagine (brother and sister fighting? mixed school students copying homework from each other? two servants breaking something valuable and blaming it on each other? whatever), but there’re not many such video in the market.
Why? Huh? Huh?
I expect, I know why they never get made: the producers suppose (and this may be confirmed by polls) that people who watch MF/F videos and people who watch MF/M videos are completely different markets, and viewers of these videos don’t cross over into other genres.
Right.
Isn’t it unfair, though? I’d love to be in a film where I get punished alongside a nice-looking lad, who has to be brave to impress me, while I can be girly, and frilly, and whimper a lot.
This, of course, gets into another rarely explored territory in the spanking industry, which is young, good-looking men. Don’t even start me on that subject.
Anyway, my point is, there needs to be an F/MF or better yet, an M/MF movie, and I want to be in it. Please. Pretty please.
I mean, producing spanking videos is not a hugely lucrative business anyway, and most people lose money or just about break even. Why not lose money on something like this?
Sugasm 56
This week’s best of the sex blogs from the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants, as well as a sponsor link, for which yours truly is not responsible.
This Week’s Picks
Same Time Next Year (http://nocloudnine.blogspot.com)
“She nodded again, grabbing the doorframe as she pushed against the finger.”
Fuck me- it’s friday. (http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
“I won’t pretend to be coy- because I know what I want.”
Sexual Things You Don’t Know About Me (http://www.taratainton.com)
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Happy Thanksgiving (http://sugarbank.com)
Editors’ Choice
Fast and Furious (http://edinerotica.blogspot.com)
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NikiFlynn.com Goes Live
Niki Flynn, an inspired spanking model and my dear partner in crime, launches her personal site today. NikiFlynn.com is a free site with plenty of pictures, a full filmography, links to all Niki-related places, and a Not Blog (that is, an occasional diary).

The design is breathtaking, and so are the photos. Go and feast your eyes.



