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Although normally I decide for myself whether a topic is worth writing about or not so much, there’s an issue I’d like to take your views on, munchkins.
It’s coming up to my blog’s first anniversary. In the last year I’ve posted every weekday (and some Sundays), and there’s one topics I’ve been steadily avoiding: blogging itself. It’s a worthy topic, and there are tons of blogs about blogging out there, competing for their place under the sun. I felt I should just keep on writing about the spanking industry, and leave writing about blogging to those who have specialist knowledge about it.
Still, in bloggy years a full year of daily posting is… well, at least the age of majority. It’s impossible not to pick up some blogging tricks in all this time. Some of my readers seem to think so, anyway, because I keep getting emails asking for blogging advice. My standard answer has been either “Ask Google“, or “Read what SpankBoss said“, or “Read what Bonnie said” etc.
Then I started to wonder whether shirking the topic myself is a little greedy. After all, the whole point of starting “Spanking Model Speaks” was to share my knowledge about the spanking industry. One might argue that spanking blogs are as much a part of the industry as movies and websites, and I certainly haven’t been shy with my opinions on those.
However, I don’t want to annoy my readers (the ones who haven’t annoyed me first, anyway), so I’m willing to hear what you think about this.
Are posts about spanking blogging something you would be pleased to see here from time to time? Or should I not waste valuable spanking space on something that isn’t strictly speaking my topic?
Small print: If you don’t tell me your opinion, you lose the moral right to complain about the outcome, whatever it is.
UPDATE: Thank you to everybody who took the time to give me your opinion. As far as I understand, the “write whatever you like” camp is slightly larger than “who cares about the blogging techniques” camp, and both are much larger than the “OMG, I can’t wait for you to tell me all your blogging secrets” camp. I’ll bear that in mind, munchkins; thanks for your time.
A Show of Hands: Being Watched
The previous Show of Hands has gone down a storm, with people still stepping up to say they like to watch others play. Great. Time for the next question.
Raise your hand if…
… you like/don’t mind being spanked in the presence of other people.
Me first, huh? *steps into the centre and raises her hand.*
The School Knickers I Want
I’ve only ever worn white cotton panties with my school uniform, but it’s long been my dream to get something like this:
My ideal thick knickers are bottle green, but maroon is good, too.
While I’m making wishes here, I’d like to regain the ability to get marks like these:
(The pictures come from this free spanking gallery.)
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The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them.
This Week’s Picks
Arrogant Penis (http://www.sex-kitten.net)
“When I start to relax, adrift in the warm comfy seas of a powerful orgasm, my body slackening (and lord knows how my face looks), aware of nothing but how fabulous this is and ready to ride the waves into slumber, he doesn’t stop.”
Bewitch Me! (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
“I’m big enough to pin you down while I move my hands up and down the sides of your body, feeling its contours beneath the black fabrics you so favor.”
Unicorn Sighting, Part II (http://loladavid.wordpress.com)
“There was one man in the very front of the theatre who didn’t give a damn who heard him moan as he came.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
The High Definition Porn Problem (http://sugarbank.com)
Editor’s Choice
The Two-Client Day (http://thismuse.blogspot.com)
Niki Flynn against Pain4Fem
Our friend Niki has been playing with scary people again.
There are more details (and, indeed, preview pictures from her most recent shoot) on her site. Tell her how brave she is.
Because, really.
Throw Us a Spanking Party
I’ve started getting a strange kind of emails, which goes something like this:
“I love the sound of your spanking party. I live in X country, and we don’t have any spanking parties here. Do you think you can come and organise some for us?” (The X country being usually somewhere it would take at least 6 hours to fly from the UK.)
That’s right: Adele = the amazing travelling one-woman spanking-event-organising outfit.
This wouldn’t be so peculiar if I hadn’t received my third such email today.
For the record: I don’t organise parties even in places I can walk to. I can barely organise myself, never mind finding venues, advertising, attracting enough girls to make it worthwhile, preparing food, and doing all the other things I don’t even know are involved in successful running of a spanking party.
Instead, I show up and get spanked. It’s much better this way for all involved, trust me.
What the Net Dragged In - 12
Meanwhile on planet Google, search terms are getting increasingly odd.
perfect porn - gosh, but some people are demanding!
caning circle - would this be like a secret society of sorts? Freemasons who Cane?
red badger spanking - good luck in trying to get meaningful consent out of a badger… if you really want to.
why do we spank on the backside - well, I don’t know why *you* spank on the backside, but whenever I decide to spank somebody, the backside is normally the part that’s least likely to hurt my lazy intellectual’s tender hands
MY SKIRT WAS SO SHORT MY PANTIES SHOWED - oh dear, bad luck… but if you don’t run around shouting about it, people may not notice.
10 Reasons Why a Spanking Model is Like a Geisha (but not really)
Yesterday I watched “Memoirs of a Geisha” (a.k.a. Bitchfest in Kimonos), and it got me thinking about that profession in relation to spanking modelling. I’ve come up with a list of 10 things a spanking model has in common with a geisha, sort of, if you squint just so. Here’s the list:
Both a geisha and a spanking model get to wear outlandish, old-fashioned clothes to work… except ours come from charity shops.
Both a geisha and a spanking model endure strict discipline… except we choose to take the pain.
Both a geisha and a spanking model have to wear a lot of theatrical make-up… except ours doesn’t identify us at a glance.
Both a geisha and a spanking model draw on artistic skills not directly related to sexuality (playing an instrument, dancing and writing skill often come in useful in spanking video work, you know)… except nobody ever acts surprised that a geisha could possibly be good at arts.
Neither a geisha nor a spanking model will normally have sex as part of their work, though both can do it, if they like.
Neither a geisha nor a spanking model is likely to become wealthy from her work, though the common idea seems to be that both professions lead to easy riches.
Both a geisha and a spanking model can get away with having a relatively plain face… except a geisha can also get away with not having much of a bottom.
Neither a geisha nor a spanking model can easily succeed if she strikes out on her own.
Both a geisha and a spanking model compete for attention of a relatively small group of people… except we don’t feel a compulsive need to drive the competition out of town.
Both a geisha and a spanking model have interesting occupations traditionally possessing a degree of mystery… but a big-budget Holywood movie about spanking models is not coming out any time soon.
Discipline of Maids in Music Videos
Although where the spanking (or to be exact, the switching) itself is concerned, this video is the case of “blink and you’ve missed it”, the story of a poor Victorian maid is very compelling, and the song is quite nice, too.
This is “In the Shadows” by The Rasmus. I liked it a lot when it was first out, and still do.
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The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.
This Week’s Picks
That sound (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
All she wanted was a cold drink when she woke up (http://thebinside.blogspot.com)
Once, a long time ago (http://excessesofabasement.blogspot.com)
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Angelina Jolie’s Real Marvelous Breasts (http://sugarbank.com)
Editor’s Choice
What Really Really Sucks (http://alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)
