“To be gentle while the other is rough”

This photo from Male Submission Art is pretty nice in itself, but what really captivated me was the description that came with it:

I admire the self-control it takes to be a submissive lover. To be alert for instructions, to listen to what the other wants in the throes of passion, and transform it into action. To keep going, and going, or change pace at a moment’s notice. To open up and offer one’s body to something painful or uncomfortable, when there’s a conflicting instinct to curl up and protect oneself. To be gentle even while the other is being rough, and to give it hard and fast when hard and fast is called for.

The picture tells a story of deliberately chosen inequality in action. She already digs her nails into his backside with abandon, enjoying it when she feels him flinch. He still touches her only lightly, as he has not yet been told to do more. (By Ranai)

And also this sentiment stuck with me:

Sometimes in my excitement and eagerness to take all of your body, offered so deliciously and temptingly, I pinch and squeeze, aroughness born of hunger.

Never for a second allow this to fool you into thinking you have similar license. Unless I tell you I want it rough you better handle me like hand-woven silk, else you will regret it. Touch me gently or I’ll not let you touch me at all. (By dishevelleddomina)

Now, thing is, I actually do rather like being bitten and scratched right back. But the satisfaction from these momentary jolts of pleasure is nowhere near as great as from the knowledge that he might like to use a rough manoeuvre, but he can’t, because I said so.

Ha.

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Batman spanks Catwoman

I saved this picture in my files some time ago, and don’t think I ever got around to posting it, even though it makes me giggle a lot. I mean… a bat-paddle?

I believe it to be by Invidia from the now defunct The Collar Purple, but if you know otherwise, I’ll make a correction.

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