A Show of Hands: Being Watched
Private Life and Play, Scenology, Show of Hands — By Adele on 30 January, 2007 9:39 pmThe previous Show of Hands has gone down a storm, with people still stepping up to say they like to watch others play. Great. Time for the next question.
Raise your hand if…
… you like/don’t mind being spanked in the presence of other people.
Me first, huh? *steps into the centre and raises her hand.*
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Yes, definitely. Being watched is just as erotic as watching. This is voyeurism from the other side. Being watched also puts others at ease and might interest them to the point of where they want to try it – we were all there at one time, right?
I just wrote several stories about this, which are posted on the Lit section of Spanking Digest. I talk in the stories about “guerilla spanking” which is like guerilla theatre; putting on an impromtu street performance. I love to up the thrill of a spanking by getting it in public. The ONLY drawback comes when the spanking is done and I want/need sex, and we must wait until we can find some privacy.
(Waving hand wildly in the air) I suppose all of us who have been in videos can step up and shout out a collective, “Well, duhhhhhh…” :-D
Shocked, I am, Erica. Shocked.
I would prefer to keep the spanking b/w my husband and myself. Of course, now the UPS guy knows, too…
I can play in public if I’m comfortable with the other people there and feel safe/comfortable with the top (usually this means I know them pretty well). But I cannot and will not do punishment in public. Too intimate and too humiliating (in the bad way). So I guess that makes my hand half up? Or one hand up and one down? :-)
this is embarrassing now, but when i was in highschool, i had a kinky gf and we would take turns bending the other over on the dining room table and give the other a great paddling or belt-spanking…
didn’t realize the window in that room was glare free, meaning you could see straight in….most of the windows on the front of my house don’t let people look in during hte daytime bc it glares…well, this one was coated…
so i’m outside getting mail and look up..and there is the kitchen table….
meaning my mailman and probably several others have seen me giving and getting some serious spankings…..
and the sad part…is that knowing that just made me want to do it more often…
so i’m raising my hand, but only in anonymous situations..I don’t think i could give or take a spanking in front of people i knew…
love it…particuarly if the “audience” is there to humilate me….can’t get enough!
I love it in a spanking party atmosphere as long as it’s a light scene (light as in mood, not neccessarily light spanks). If things are more solemn or serious, I like it to be one on one.
I don’t mind at all…though I’ve not been spanked at a spanking party, I have been spanked in public. Sometimes it can be embarassing, but it’s great fuel for fantasies later on.
Ruby
I dunno… I suppose it is kind of a turn on, but I’m too shy to actually try that out. Maybe that’s why I would be a horrible spanking model :D