“I like you, but not really.”

Rants, Raves and Reviews, Scenology, Shooting Films — By Adele on 6 March, 2006 6:45 pm

The tolerance week continues; I bet you’re glad.

I just had to fend off a moron who messaged me through one of my forums. He really likes me, he says. He loves my butt, and he thinks I’m the hottest things since last year’s hot cross buns.

His problem?

Age play. It disturbs him that I play little girls. He wants to enjoy my vids, but he is overcome with guilt wanking to ageplay material, where a grown woman in a cute little dress and pigtails pretends to be a teenager spanked by Stepdad. He thinks I need to face up to the evil of such videos: apparently they are a Really Bad Thing, because perverts who like real little girls might get turned on by them and go harm them. And am I not ever worried about the men who come up with that stuff?

(Aside: I come up with this stuff. The audience I hope to get is women like me, who are into age-play, and who don’t tend to get a lot of stuff shot with them in mind. I try to shoot what I want to watch, because otherwise I don’t get a great deal to watch. Oh dear, destroys your fantasy of dirty woman-hater pornogaphers a bit, doesn’t it? There are plenty of those, I’m sure, but they are not the ones making sweet, mild daddy/daughter stuff.)

Jesus. The man gets excited by my vids, and his guilt wrecks him so violently that he wants me to deal with this for him by starting to make a different sort of vids right now.

He wants me to act in a clearly pleasurable scene, where I writhe in extasy and beg the top to hit me harder, until I can’t sit down for a week. Because, obviously, you can’t take responsibility for wanting to spank a woman really hard; she needs to beg you to do it to her. Simple consent is not enough; she needs to be gagging for it, and then you reluctantly oblige.

Don’t think I don’t understand the mindset, because I do: I’m this way with sex. I avoid it most of the time, but when it does happen, I can’t express the interest. I need to be *made* to do it; unless in some way forced scene, I’m not interested. But I don’t go around telling people that that’s the only way sex should happen, right?

My advice to the guy: go and fuck yourself with a cactus.

My actual advice to the guy: realise that your kink entails scenes that are highly consensual, where the woman is getting pleasure out of whatever evil torture you plan for her. Find videos that cater to this kink. Find people who share this kink. Do *not* try to convince a girl who gets her primary pleasure centres stroked by being non-consensually spanked as a fantasy thirteen-year old, that her kink is wrong, that she should change her behaviour for you, or to subjugate her kink to yours.

THEN you can go and fuck yourself with a cactus.