Spanking porn: what do you want to watch?

Is your experience of spanking porn unsatisfying in some way? Do you have a favourite fantasy that you don’t seem to find in spanking films? Do you find yourself sighing at your computer screen, thinking, “But why don’t they make films about this wonderful idea of mine – it would make a great spanking movie, if only anybody made it.

It may surprise you, but spanking producers actually care about what you want. If they can make the porn you want, then you can buy it. They make money, you have your fantasy material in your hands, everybody wins.

To help you get your hands on the spanking porn of your dreams, Zille Defeu is running a survey, asking a simple question: “What do YOU want from spanking porn?” She says:

So this is a post where I am asking those of you who consume porn to delurk, and say what turns you on. If I get enough information, in a few months I’ll organize it all and turn it into a report, of sorts, which I’ll make available to the other spanking models, and producers. …

Most of you will have no trouble coming up with requests. But for those who need a bit of help, here’s some questions of my own:

• Who do you like to see get spanked?
• Who do you like to see do the spanking?
• What intensity level(s) do you look for?
• What scenarios do you never get tired of, or just want to see more of?
• Does the setting/background matter to you? Do you care about authenticity?
• What is the single most important thing to you to have in spanking porn

Go over onto her blog and tell her!

I’ll be following the discussion with great interest.

P.S. Personally, I think that if you never pay for your spanking porn, but only ever browse the free stuff or download pirated movies, you don’t get to complain that your fantasies are not being fulfilled. Just so you know.

E-lust 23

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Roadmaps of Consent – I fucking love consent. I love safewords. I can be much more cruel, and push much harder, if I trust my partner to tell me when I go too far.

Staying Safe – One cock, from one man, missing one condom, ultimately led to my brother’s death. And that sucks.

Flying the Friendly Skies – One button on her sweater was undone, there was a rip in her hose, scratches on her boots, and her hair was carelessly pinned back with stray wisps of hair escaping. There was a curious flavor of soiling about her, something a bit dirty and unkempt.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Labels and my thoughts… - In the past year and a half I have gone from being someone that was lost, without identity that fit, rattling around inside myself to someone that has names for what they are.

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Experiments in BDSM poetry

Disclaimer: I don’t write poetry.

LONG-DISTANCE
by Adele Haze

I put a silver bell in my lover’s collar;
It trills when he moves: I’m here, find me.
His skin warms the metal.
When I’m alone, I listen for the bell in the dark.
Some days there is silence.
But not today.

Be my heterosexual Valentine: calling out M & S

First, a quick straw poll of the queer women reading this: would you be thrilled to receive cufflinks as your romantic Valentine treat from your girl? Now the queer dudes: what would you say about a lovely delicate bracelet?

I suppose, there are some gay girls who’d love a pair of smart cufflinks, as well as guys who may find a spot in their heart for a chain wristlet with a heart charm, in which case you’ll be happy to go ahead and throw 5 quid at the set of Marks & Spencer’s very red Valentine crackers.

Me, if I wanted a piece of gooey schmaltz to share with my girlfriend on Monday, I’d have to thwart my middle-class urges and go further afield than my local Marks’s. Because, look:

You get a bracelet and cuff-links. Oh, you’re dating somebody of the same sex as you? Tough.

It may come as a shock to Marks & Spencer that non-heterosexual people would ever consider shopping there. Maybe the thinking is that all the exciting, counter-culture gays wouldn’t step over the threshold of the fortress of conventionality such as an M&S shop. Or maybe it’s that it’s more convenient for the marketing department to erase the queer folk from their customer base completely.

It’s so easy to put some theatrical rhetoric on the diversity page of your website, saying things like “Not only are we responsive to the needs of our employees and customers but we also take pride in the role we play in the community at large. Because of this we value diversity very highly.” In your employees, perhaps, because they can sue you. Your customers? It’s much easier just to go with the thoughtless corporate discrimination.

Tell me though, dear Marks and Sparks, if you prick us, do we not bleed? If you expend a huge marketing budget to convince us to be more in love on a particular day of the year, do we not go hunting for achingly corny trinkets?

It’s fine, I didn’t want the crackers. I don’t have a girlfriend right now, plus I’d like to think there’s actually a limit to my sentimentality. Yet, if this time next year I’m dating a girl who desires to be showered with heart-shaped knick-knacks and silly little gifts, I fully intend to spoil her. It’s a shame Marks & Spencer don’t want my custom.

What shall I do for my 5th bloggerversary?

I’m sure that somebody will be able to correct me if I’m wrong, but I’m pretty sure I had one of the first handful of spanking model blogs out there. If not the first. So this blog’s fifth birthday is kind of a big deal.

How do I celebrate? What do I do?

For the fifth birthday of The Spanking Writers, which is coming next month, Abel and I are throwing a big party in our house. But what about this blog, my original creation, my lovely, filthy brainchild? I’d like to celebrate with spankings, and to have something to post about later. Gah, I just don’t know.

If you make a suggestion I actually use, I’ll give you a lovely present, also to be determined later. Probably some really good pr0n.

And here’s a picture from 5 years ago, from “The Young Offender” by Northern Spanking: