Comments on: Take Your Sick Fantasies to the Shrink

By: Adele

Adele — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 21:54:03 +0000

Keith, it’s a pretty common fantasy, actually. A guy who shares it would be better qualified to explain why it’s so popular, but rest assured that plenty of people have the same fantasy. It’s not crazy at all.

By: keith

keith — Sat, 22 Mar 2008 10:07:05 +0000

hey there, ok here’s the deal. Is it normal for me to have crazy fantasies about my partner being intimate with another woman? Is there anyone out there that can tell me that i haven’t completely lost the plot? My partner is ok with the idea but has issues understanding the fact that i’m not really interested in the other woman as much as i’m interested in the intimacy between my partner and the other woman. Can anyone shed any light and clarify this desire? thanks

By: Jim Scribner

Jim Scribner — Sat, 12 May 2007 17:01:47 +0000

One suggestion that may help solve the problem. Somebody needs to establish a list of professional doctors and lawyers who for or against spanking and put it out online so people can boycot those who are against it and give your money to those who are not against it. That’s
how you fight greedy arrogant elitists trying to micromanage the lives of all the rest of us without our consent for the benefit of their own greedy
class interests which is clearly your perfect legal right. Spanking is not something people have ever traditionally had to organize a defense of
their rights in because it was always accepted. Times have changed.

By: Jim Scribner

Jim Scribner — Sat, 12 May 2007 16:31:04 +0000

Oh, and by the way, professional boxers give their consent to being assaulted all the time. Everybody who who’s had medical doctors or
accupuncturists stick needles in their bare backsides also give their consent to what would be legally assault otherwise. Women who have
abortions when there is no danger to their health from their pregancy, people who have cosmetic surgery, and transgender fetishists who have their genitalia operated on give their consent to being carved up with surgical knives without any real medical heath need to do so but that is not defined as assault because doctors make money from all that unlike spankings. Anything not mandatory should be forbidden unless some greedy twit in the Cambridge educated class makes money off it?

By: Jim Scribner

Jim Scribner — Sat, 12 May 2007 15:55:46 +0000

I have a degree in psychology. Spanking is astronomically less likely to kill anybody than having sex which millions of people have died from in my lifetime. Fear of spanking is an even more irrational neurotic phobia
than homophobia since anal sex can actually give you AIDS and kill you
which spanking will not. Psychotherapists and lawyers make money from people getting divorced and depressed and bottling up anger until they explode and do something really stupid which spankings can vent harmlessly in a slapstick comedy fashion and let people move on.
They have a vested interest involved in objecting to it. Its all political.

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By: tom paine

tom paine — Mon, 26 Feb 2007 01:04:33 +0000

My entire blog is about getting my wife to accept sexual fantasies and how to live them, which ones are OK and which should remain hidden, etc. Shrinks have no fucking clue about such matters, and would be best sticking to mass murderers and onanists.

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By: Adele

Adele — Wed, 21 Feb 2007 08:11:18 +0000

Sure, the article is longer than any reasonable quoting would allow, and the book it’s clipped out of is longer than the article. That’s what the link is for: so that anybody who wishes to could click over and make up their own mind.

Sure, getting into your fantasies with your partner is a huge, much-discussed topic, which will be worthy of more discussion for as long as new people discover new fantasies.

The fact remains that the author of the book/article chooses to exoress this by concentrating on how dangerous it can be to make the transition from fantasy to reality, and by giving the example of the most basic spanking scene gone wrong as a cautionary tale. I can’t see a positive example anywhere; perhaps, it’s buried somewhere in the book.

Reading the writer’s mind is not required when your purpose is to read what’s typed on the page in black-and-white, and wonder how it can influence a vulnerable reader. It isn’t my concern what the writer is thinking; it’s my concern what a reader will take away from the article.

(Of course, a reader who relies on an article in the Times to provide their counselling is already on a shaky ground, but if it wasn’t meant to be read as a piece of advice, it shouldn’t be printed in a Q&A form.)

It’s also my concern whether an irritated partner or parent would be able to use this article to beat a kinky reader over the head with their sick fantasies (I can think of at least eight people for whom this would be a concern).