Comments on: Spanking In an Ideal World http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/ A Blog of Musings on the Science of Artistic Suffering Fri, 30 Mar 2012 05:37:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: loren smith http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-143019 loren smith Wed, 03 Mar 2010 07:56:54 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-143019 To get a good spanking & be paid for it would take care of two problems. (1.) getting a much needed hot ass & (2.) extra money to pay off bills. To get a good spanking & be paid for it would take care of two problems. (1.) getting a much needed hot ass & (2.) extra money to pay off bills.

]]> By: loren smith http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-143015 loren smith Wed, 03 Mar 2010 07:52:46 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-143015 I would love to be a spanking model, if given the chance I would do so in a heartbeat. I have spent the last month trying to get the chance to recieve a good spanking with no luck. I have even spanked and paddled myself but it's just not the swame. If you could help me I would be very grateful. I would love to be a spanking model, if given the chance I would do so in a heartbeat. I have spent the last month trying to get the chance to recieve a good spanking with no luck. I have even spanked and paddled myself but it’s just not the swame. If you could help me I would be very grateful.

]]> By: oliver http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3618 oliver Tue, 14 Nov 2006 18:06:22 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-3618 I'd love to be a spanking model, as I've always wanted to make erotica of some description. I'd be fearful of being outed, sure, but somehow spanking is different - more cultivated, less sleazy. I'd be very interested, if by some chance the services of a 47 year old white male were required... The de-lurk post was great. Many thanks. I’d love to be a spanking model, as I’ve always wanted to make erotica of some description. I’d be fearful of being outed, sure, but somehow spanking is different – more cultivated, less sleazy. I’d be very interested, if by some chance the services of a 47 year old white male were required…

The de-lurk post was great. Many thanks.

]]> By: Ruby Redd http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3569 Ruby Redd Mon, 13 Nov 2006 13:19:50 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-3569 Adele, Here's at least a partial of my list-of-leading-men...in no particular order. Steve Fuller Keith Jones Dallas The Girls Boarding School Guy The Coach from Real Spankings Institute Shaun Reynolds (made a movie with Spanking Epics) The folks at Lupus/RGE The guy in the link below...I don't know his name but I think he's darling. The pictures say he works with Her First Punishment. http://rubyreddspanking.blogspot.com/2006/10/whoa-hottie.html And...as a leading lady--Miss Kelly Payne. So, hopefully they'll just all magically appear at my door this coming Saturday, eh? Adele,

Here’s at least a partial of my list-of-leading-men…in no particular order.

Steve Fuller
Keith Jones
Dallas
The Girls Boarding School Guy
The Coach from Real Spankings Institute
Shaun Reynolds (made a movie with Spanking Epics)
The folks at Lupus/RGE

The guy in the link below…I don’t know his name but I think he’s darling. The pictures say he works with Her First Punishment.
http://rubyreddspanking.blogspot.com/2006/10/whoa-hottie.html

And…as a leading lady–Miss Kelly Payne.

So, hopefully they’ll just all magically appear at my door this coming Saturday, eh?

]]> By: Adele http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3566 Adele Mon, 13 Nov 2006 09:57:07 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-3566 Kim - I hear you, and your objections are exactly the reason why any girl should stop and think very hard before venturing into the modelling life. As for interviewing the tops - I've never felt the need to do that. In a way, it's not a video top that's actually topping you - it's the director of the video. If that makes sense at all. The top's doing what he/she is told. Obviously, there's a degree of improvisation involved, and there can be some concern over accuracy, and good old personality clashes, but it's not too hard to iron out during a shoot. Or maybe I've simply been lucky. Ruby - Now, that's interesting - do you care to provide a list of the men you would like to act with? You've made me think about mine, and it's a long list indeed. :) Kim – I hear you, and your objections are exactly the reason why any girl should stop and think very hard before venturing into the modelling life. As for interviewing the tops – I’ve never felt the need to do that. In a way, it’s not a video top that’s actually topping you – it’s the director of the video. If that makes sense at all. The top’s doing what he/she is told. Obviously, there’s a degree of improvisation involved, and there can be some concern over accuracy, and good old personality clashes, but it’s not too hard to iron out during a shoot. Or maybe I’ve simply been lucky.

Ruby – Now, that’s interesting – do you care to provide a list of the men you would like to act with? You’ve made me think about mine, and it’s a long list indeed. :)

]]> By: Ruby Redd http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3546 Ruby Redd Sun, 12 Nov 2006 13:22:09 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-3546 Absolutely. If career were not an issue then I would most definitely want to make a few spanking videos--at least one with all the great leading men out there. I've made a short lil private home video, but it's just not the same at all. That would not detract from my private interests in spanking at all. Maybe someday... Absolutely. If career were not an issue then I would most definitely want to make a few spanking videos–at least one with all the great leading men out there. I’ve made a short lil private home video, but it’s just not the same at all.

That would not detract from my private interests in spanking at all.

Maybe someday…

]]> By: Kim http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3480 Kim Fri, 10 Nov 2006 22:14:32 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-3480 hi Adele! delurking now, as I missed delurking friday. thanks for all the fun and naughty thrills so far, and intelligent commentary/questions, and sharing... I'm pretty sure I wouldn't last as a model, even if I tried it. There's something intensely personal about spanking that doesn't feel right to share with the world (although, oddly enough, I'm not sure I'd feel the same way about escort work). As a strictly ignorant, control-freakish note, I think I might also be nervous about whether I got to interview the top to my satisfaction, after already having signed a contract with someone else (the producer). Do you find that's a problem? Any other objections? I guess there's a variant off of what you pointed out: people can find you anywhere, at any time, *forever*, as a model. Too many possible judgments by potential clients if I went freelance with anything. Too many possible career-closing options for an act that you might have done just once, and left behind. No way to hide, and I guess I like being able to hide a few things. Hrm. Anyway, in summation: you're brave, and I'm a chicken, but I'm glad you're sharing and around! hi Adele!

delurking now, as I missed delurking friday. thanks for all the fun and naughty thrills so far, and intelligent commentary/questions, and sharing…

I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t last as a model, even if I tried it. There’s something intensely personal about spanking that doesn’t feel right to share with the world (although, oddly enough, I’m not sure I’d feel the same way about escort work).

As a strictly ignorant, control-freakish note, I think I might also be nervous about whether I got to interview the top to my satisfaction, after already having signed a contract with someone else (the producer). Do you find that’s a problem?

Any other objections? I guess there’s a variant off of what you pointed out: people can find you anywhere, at any time, *forever*, as a model. Too many possible judgments by potential clients if I went freelance with anything. Too many possible career-closing options for an act that you might have done just once, and left behind. No way to hide, and I guess I like being able to hide a few things.

Hrm. Anyway, in summation: you’re brave, and I’m a chicken, but I’m glad you’re sharing and around!

]]> By: Adele http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3403 Adele Thu, 09 Nov 2006 23:40:48 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-3403 Bonnie - I assure you, no matter what a woman looks like, if she's a genuine, enthusiastic spankee, there'll always be a fan base for her somewhere... waiting for a woman looking exactly like that. Graeme - Hmm, whether your friends know or not, a newspaper expose can hardly be very nice! Shame about you being outed before you were ready, but it must be nice to be able not to panic too much, and to sign your name. Kate - My condolences on the computer genii in the family... The only consolation is, geeks are often pretty kinky, too. (Though it may not help that much if they are actually your cousins LOL) Bonnie – I assure you, no matter what a woman looks like, if she’s a genuine, enthusiastic spankee, there’ll always be a fan base for her somewhere… waiting for a woman looking exactly like that.

Graeme – Hmm, whether your friends know or not, a newspaper expose can hardly be very nice! Shame about you being outed before you were ready, but it must be nice to be able not to panic too much, and to sign your name.

Kate – My condolences on the computer genii in the family… The only consolation is, geeks are often pretty kinky, too. (Though it may not help that much if they are actually your cousins LOL)

]]> By: Kate http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3388 Kate Thu, 09 Nov 2006 20:42:17 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-3388 Well, I've considered it, but I grew up in a close family, and have some cousins that are very handy with computers. I'm already scared to death that one of them, the one who always fixes my computer, will stumble across some of the urls of spanking sites I visit. In real life, I'd never become a spanking model (even though I'd like to be one). But if I wouldn't care about family members or friends finding out, I'd sure as hell want to be one! I'm guess I'm just kind of jealous... :) Well, I’ve considered it, but I grew up in a close family, and have some cousins that are very handy with computers. I’m already scared to death that one of them, the one who always fixes my computer, will stumble across some of the urls of spanking sites I visit. In real life, I’d never become a spanking model (even though I’d like to be one). But if I wouldn’t care about family members or friends finding out, I’d sure as hell want to be one! I’m guess I’m just kind of jealous… :)

]]> By: Graeme http://adelehaze.com/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3383 Graeme Thu, 09 Nov 2006 20:10:00 +0000 http://adelehaze.com/2006/11/07/spanking-in-an-ideal-world/#comment-3383 I would be a spanker (possibly spankee, though my limit is quite low nowadays). I'm not particularly verbal (probably a downside for a CP/SM actor). I'm sort of at the stage where I don't care less about my peers knowing. I got outed in 1998 by my ex wife when she included it in her allegations of sexually abusing my son to defame my character to social services. So I did the sensible thing and let all my freinds know I was into SM CP and the like. I found it easier to go clubbing after that, and a shed load easier to get my kit off for public fun and games once I knew that if I ever appeared in the News of the World that all my nearest and dearest would be able to rib me without them all having heart attacks first. My issue would that of my son finding out. I didn't do anything wrong by the way I just upset the wrong woman when I said enough is enough. I wonder sometimes for all you lovely young ladies whether your current working lifestyle could affect your future familly partnerships or working lives, as when and if you ever move on to new pastures, because despite the current sense of openess within our own community, outside of our world a lot of people still think we are weirdos and perverts. To make the point I used to comment as anonymous as do many others still. However that stuck in my craw, because if you are out there for our delectation on the various sites and then being so open in here, then I should at least have the decency to share my name. Anyway, nuff said. I would be a spanker (possibly spankee, though my limit is quite low nowadays). I’m not particularly verbal (probably a downside for a CP/SM actor). I’m sort of at the stage where I don’t care less about my peers knowing. I got outed in 1998 by my ex wife when she included it in her allegations of sexually abusing my son to defame my character to social services. So I did the sensible thing and let all my freinds know I was into SM CP and the like. I found it easier to go clubbing after that, and a shed load easier to get my kit off for public fun and games once I knew that if I ever appeared in the News of the World that all my nearest and dearest would be able to rib me without them all having heart attacks first.

My issue would that of my son finding out. I didn’t do anything wrong by the way I just upset the wrong woman when I said enough is enough.

I wonder sometimes for all you lovely young ladies whether your current working lifestyle could affect your future familly partnerships or working lives, as when and if you ever move on to new pastures, because despite the current sense of openess within our own community, outside of our world a lot of people still think we are weirdos and perverts.

To make the point I used to comment as anonymous as do many others still. However that stuck in my craw, because if you are out there for our delectation on the various sites and then being so open in here, then I should at least have the decency to share my name.

Anyway, nuff said.

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